Community rules

Posts go live the moment you post them — there's no one holding your post for approval. That only works if everyone follows a few rules.

Don't post

What happens if you break a rule

Phone numbers, emails, addresses, case numbers, SSNs, too many links, and slurs are rejected automatically and you're told exactly what to remove — fix it and repost. Naming an official holds your post for a quick human check rather than publishing or rejecting it outright.

Be kind

This is peer to peer. Assume everyone reading is going through something hard. If you see a post that shouldn't be up, use the Report button under it — 3 reports takes it down for a quick look.

Posting limits

New accounts (under 24 hours old) can post up to 2 tips a day; established accounts up to 10 a day. This keeps the directory from getting flooded and makes it harder for a spam account to do damage before anyone notices.